As a generalisation it seems that somewhere along the line psychology lost the plot (presuming there ever was one) and is, more and more these days, into appeasement (you’re okay/ I’m okay/ it’s all okay) and pacification via becoming comfortably numb … to settle for second-best, as it were, by accepting one’s lot in life.
“Trauma”
Trauma does not exist; it is a Western delusion imposed on the world at large.